Beyond the coaching room

One question runs through all my work

What happens to people under pressure, and what helps them carry it well? Aida is where I work on it with you, one person at a time. The Collective and blue lemons are where I work on it with tech organisations, and with founders facing a big decision.

Three places, one thread

The person

Aida Coaching

My role: Founder

Coaching, courses and the RESET cards. Together we look at what pressure is doing to your brain and body, and build the habits that help you recover and think clearly again.

For: Leaders, founders and professionals who are tired of running on empty.

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The organisation

Resilium Labs The Collective

My role: Specialist, leadership & human performance

In tech organisations, some pressure is built into the system. The same incidents keep coming back, and the people fixing them wear thinner each time. The Collective is a small team of senior specialists who work on the whole problem together, from the cloud, the code and the data to the people running them. I bring the human side.

For: Tech teams where the same incidents and the same firefighting keep returning.

See how we work as a team

The decision

blue lemons

My role: Co-founder, with Simone Hume

Founders and business owners face calls they only get to make once or twice: what to charge, who to hire first, when to raise. Simone Hume and I started blue lemons so nobody has to make those calls alone. You book a focused hour, one to one, with a UK expert who has at least 25 years of experience and has already made the same call.

For: Start-up founders and business owners with a big decision in front of them.

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Resilium Labs · The Collective

One team for tech organisations

The Collective works with tech organisations that keep having the same incidents. The causes rarely stay inside one system. They sit in how leaders behave under pressure, in the governance that shapes what teams can do, and in how software and data are built and run.

So we work on all of it together, as one team. Every specialist has done this work at scale, in real organisations under real pressure, so nobody is experimenting on your production systems or learning on your time.

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    Diagnose

    Find what keeps the same incidents coming back. It usually sits across the organisation, well beyond the system that failed.

  2. 2

    Bring in the right people

    Only the specialists the work needs, each of whom has solved that class of problem before, at scale.

  3. 3

    Change it together

    One joined-up piece of work. Fixing one condition in isolation tends to move the problem somewhere else.

What we cover together

Resilience & operational excellence

Learning from incidents, chaos engineering, and the feedback loops that keep systems healthy.

Leadership & human performance

How leaders and teams decide under pressure, and what sustained pressure does to them.

Cloud, security & governance

Security and governance that keep pace with how fast teams really work.

Software lifecycle

How software is built, shipped and run, end to end.

AI & agentic evaluation

Checking that AI in your operations makes better decisions as well as faster ones.

Data & visualisation

Graph databases, big data, and seeing the relationships that matter.

The team

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Adrian Hornsby · Founder of Resilium Labs

Resilience & operational excellence

Former Principal Engineer at AWS, where he wrote much of Amazon's resilience and chaos engineering guidance. Author of Why We Still Suck at Resilience.

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James Saull

Cloud, security & governance

Nearly a decade as a Principal at AWS, guiding enterprises such as Barclays, Shell and the BBC into the cloud. Now co-founder and CTO of a SaaS business.

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Matt Fitzgerald

Software, data & AI

At Amazon, led a major migration of internal systems onto AWS and built the big-data platform that moved the company off its Oracle data warehouse.

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Thomas Blood

Enterprise transformation

A decade at AWS as a Principal Strategic Advisor to C-suite leaders across EMEA. Co-author of Reaching Cloud Velocity.

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Sonia Ouarti · Me

Leadership & human performance

More than twenty years in high-pressure corporate roles, including at AWS, with clients such as Google, IBM and Sony Music. Master's in Psychology and Neuroscience. Decision-making under stress, burnout, and the human side of resilience.

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Start with one conversation about what you are seeing. We diagnose what is driving it, agree what needs to change and who from the team to bring in, then do the work together, from the systems to the people running them.

Why I work in all three places

I spent more than twenty years in high-pressure, international corporate roles, including at AWS, and worked with clients such as Google, IBM and Sony Music. From the inside, I saw the same thing again and again: capable people struggling, and the cause sitting around them as much as within them. In the culture. In the workload. In a decision they had been left to make alone.

Coaching changes how you carry pressure. Some of the weight only shifts when the organisation changes, or when someone who has been there helps you think a decision through. So I work on all three.

The science underneath stays the same. A brain under sustained pressure narrows its focus and falls back on old habits. Given safety and support, it opens up again: you see more options, and you decide better. Whether I am working with one person, a leadership team or a founder, that is what I am looking for.

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Which one do you need?

I'm exhausted, stuck, or reacting more than I'd like to.

Start with Aida

Tell me what is going on and we will work out the best place to start, whether that is private coaching, a course or the RESET cards.

Get in touch

Our tech teams keep fighting the same fires, and our leaders are wearing thin.

The Collective

A whole-organisation approach. We start by diagnosing what keeps the incidents coming back, then work on it together as one team: resilience and operations, cloud and security, software, data and AI, and the leaders and people carrying the pressure.

Need a single workshop or keynote? See corporate workshops.

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I have a big business decision coming, and I'd rather not make it alone.

blue lemons

Browse the experts, book an hour, and talk it through with someone who has been there.

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Not sure which fits?

Tell me what is going on and I will point you to the right place, even when that place is somewhere else.

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